One woman’s life has been so turned around by the news that her surrogate-born child is not biologically hers. In a heartfelt post on Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole”, this 36-year-old tells about her long struggle with infertility and her shock at discovering the truth.
After seven years of marriage and several years of unsuccessful pregnancies despite medical intervention, they resorted to surrogacy. Their close college friend, who had already had two children, bore their baby. However, according to recent medical check-ups, discrepancies led to a shocking revelation that the baby was not biologically related to her.
Signs of Betrayal Uncovered
The woman initially waved off minor inconsistencies, such as brown eyes for her son, as normal genetic variations. Nevertheless, a routine blood test indicated that her blood type did not match her son’s, which prompted further investigations. The DNA results proved that she wasn’t the biological mother, thus raising questions about clinical practices.
Husband’s Confession Exposes Infidelity
The matter got worse when her husband admitted having sex with the surrogate, thinking there would be no conception because he used protection. Consequently, this made the wife feel betrayed by her spouse and best friend, breaking their trust completely.
After what has happened, she is now consulting with an attorney to give up all parenting rights and responsibilities. Her decision received mixed reactions from family members and friends alike. They support abandoning their girl but propose maintaining some relationship with an unrelated baby, even if it implies future parental disconnection.
Online Community Weighs In
Many online commenters have expressed support for the woman, acknowledging the intense emotional impact of her situation. One commenter said, “He cheated…it’s not yours,” and another added, “You’ve suffered a terrible betrayal. Your parents and friends don’t have to actually deal with the situation. They don’t get a vote.”
Thus, amidst all these revelations, her story shows how complex personal treachery in surrogacy creates complicated legal and emotional fractures.
Originally written for ParentHerald.